Walk with them..hold their hands ..kiss them even if they don't want..These are my little ones..For me..they will never grow.
My first one is Widad (Love). Now 7, a very independent girl. refused to be kissed now. Ever since when she was small, she does not like people kissing her...It is dirty..so she thought..She knows where to keep her things so that both of her sisters will not touch her properties. Really know how to persuade her sisters in order to get what she wants (usually cycling turns because they have to share their bike). She can tolerate her sisters. By the way, that is the first value that I have tought her, followed by responsible and so on.
My second one Wardah (Roses) is now 5..always a big fan of me..very demanding..asking to be hugged and kissed..Someone that I can always bully..roll her here n there..pinch her chubby cheek as much as as I want. Whatever she says is always genuine..even though for us it is funny..If she is serious..she will made her point. A bit quiet compared to the rest and always confident with herself.
Wadeaa (Treasure) is my third one and she is 3. The most "outlaw" among all.. No one can touch me when she is around..She would claimed that I belong to her. "This is my mama..Mama E'aa..". Too pampered I think, perhaps because she is the youngest. Always able to manipulate situations, pointing her wrongdoings to her sisters. she made my husband said " Well..now I know why I did not get any boy.." And both of us will be smiling looking at each other..
All of them are very active. When Widad was small, I brought her to the doctor, worried because she doesn't know how to sit still. After checking, the doctor said that she is normal..It is just that she is a mix. That's all. If she is one step in front of me, I have to think of 11 steps forward so that I would be able to be at the same level with her..Hmmm...
We have to fill our day with lots of activities so that they are able to sleep well and early at night. They really have that extra energy. So, since they were small, we make sure that we always do outdoor activities. Normally, we walk up the hill. The picture that you see here..We brought them to IIUM to see the lizard. They were counting it.
If it is raining, we will play under the rain.But..you have to make sure that the rain is really heavy, no thunder and lightning. After that is another work. Bath them and massage them the whole body and they really like it. Followed by eating, play again, read Quran before sleep and then ...zzzzzzzzzzzzzz...
Sometimes, we will take them out for a bus ride, swimming once a week and gardening.
We will let them play with grasses and dust. This I have learned from someone..
"The best way to make your kids healthy is by letting them to play with nature.."
Walk with your kids. Have fun and enjoy the day. This moment will never come back.
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