KidsTantrums. What ToDo?

Anak Marah2..How to handle? Mana nak letak muka? 

Macam ni yang saya buat kalau anak2 buat perangai..

Semalam 

Wardah gheyau dekat plauground macam kena dera..Sesungguh hati gheyau tergedik-gedik..meloncat-loncat.. I have to call her sister to bring her back home. Tanya pasai apa..rupanya sebab sweet nan sebijik..kawan bagi pada kakaknya..kakaknya bahagi dua..tapi Wardah mmg selalu at her weakest knee bila sampai kt bab2 makanan, sweet n cekelat...tak mau bahagi..nak kt dia sorang semua..Jadi semalam, dh dibawa kerumah.. dibagi :

WARNING..Mama kata..kalau menangih lagi pasai makanan atau benda2 yang sewaktu dengannya..tak boleh keluaq main at playground. And she agreed.

Today..

Today..she did it again...Lagi kena bawak naik atas..Mama ckp..duduk n diam..tp duduk n tak diam..
"I want to go out" Crying like H**l.
"Nope..you have promised yesterday..If you cry again because of sweet or food...you cannot go to the playground..tomorrow if you do it again..3 days you are not going..."
"Waaargh..but it was n accident!!" Nak gelak pun ada bila dengaq anak2 cari jalan untuk melepaskan diri...
"Well..cry more..tonight you sisters will be eating cake...if you are not quiet...you will get none"
Immediately..senyap...hahaha..umpan dah mengena..

I leave her to calm down in her room..
Told her..I want you to think of what you did..Whether it is good or not..
I will come back later.

When I came back..voluntarily she said..I'm not going to cry because of food anymore..
Then I explain to her..the things that she should not do..she is getting the cake because she is quiet but still she is not going to the playground..(Because she wanted to).

I reminded her :
Tomorrow if you do it again..3 days you are not going..."
SHE HAS TO AGREE TO THIS CONDITION. She said yes..

Then..she is quiet..calm..she took bath..and we read book together...

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